Bad energy will have
the boomerang effect
Let me go ahead and start this off by saying you would be
shocked at how exhausting it can be to throw any type of negative energy
towards others. Not only are you afflicting this nasty energy on others, but
furthermore yourself, and trust me, people can sense that. Like fervent sharks to
blood in the ocean your enemies and others seemingly closer to you as well will
feed off of this. I was thinking to myself that I don’t remember the last time
putting someone else down worked in my favor. Not to sound like a total cliché
but if you don’t have something nice to say don’t say it at all because this
day and age you wont get away with it.
No one “likes a negative Nancy?” More
like “no one will invite a negative Nancy to any of the parties and she will
have to order Chinese for the 3rd time this week because she’s
lonely”. Wait, what?
None of your journeys
are the same
Don’t catch yourself turning up your nose at the mention of
a close friends success. At many different points of my life I thought I had
this one figured out, and then I realized I didn’t. There is a solid message
behind this idea: you need to find out what is so wrong with your life that is
stopping you from celebrating the up comings of someone else’s. It is hard to
feel elated for anyone when you yourself might feel trapped, maybe in a rut
even. When you are in a ‘rut’ every ones life seems to be going better than
yours, weather this is in terms of money, love, image… you will find something,
anything and compare your situation
with theirs. YOU CANNOT- I repeat- CANNOT DO THAT! You might interpret others
as having a smooth carefree journey, but their pit stops and plights might be
recently behind them or unexpectedly around the corner. That is why we must
celebrate the fortune of others instead of being down on ourselves, because much
like a new song stuck in your head their uplifting moment won’t last forever.
What I am trying to say is you can’t just be there for someone when things are
going bad, but also good (great even).
By comparing your life with other people will leave you thinking of your
own life as mediocre when that isn’t the case, you have your own journey and
comparing will only turn you into a Negative Nancy (refer back to being alone
forever with Chinese food).
Jealousy is a bitch
…And that bitch is you. So take your spiteful ass somewhere
else. Or how about this: stop sitting on your ass and go do something about it.
Now listen, there are certain circumstances where you might be jealous of
someone that is unreasonable. For example, those sexy glowing Victoria Secret
model bitches are a given (like free pass status). But that seemingly perfect
blonde in all of your classes who seems nice, smart, and is clearly a knock out
is not fair game. Get your ass to the gym, get your head in a book and
reevaluate your personality because you are spending way too much thought on
someone else to be even remotely satisfied with who you really are. Negative Nancy,
meet Jealous Jamie. Maybe the two of you can drink some wine and spend your
evening together wondering why you haven’t gone on a date in two years.
I’m
actually a little sorry if I offended any of you Jealous Jamie’s out there,
because as a human I understand that jealousy is a very natural
feeling/reaction and most of you would make it go away if the choice was up to
you. So on a lighter note when you are hating on someone else,
remember there are others that might be admiring you from afar. You may be
jealous of that radiant blonde, but that chick in the back row of your class
might think you are the funny pretty smart one. Don’t ruin it for yourself by
coming off as a jealous jerk. It is such a bad look, spare yourself.
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